6 Mindset Shifts To Change Your Dating Life
I hear so many people who struggle with mindset. They think they aren’t good enough, unworthy, not attractive enough, to thick, to thin, to curvy, to skinny, to tall, to short.
You name it we think it, am I right? Especially when it comes to dating, people become insecure around the opposite sex, and we are never fully satisfied with who we are – Did you know this is actually a discredit to the God who designed you.
Mindset Shifts To Change Your Dating Life will help you to not discredit yourself, bringing it back to He formed me in my mothers womb, so clearly he knew what He was doing. He is the creator and my only job is to steward well what He has gifted me. My only job is to bring glory to Him, and honor to His name, and that means honouring who He created me to be, honouring the way he created me, made me, designed me. It does not mean never changing or trying to be better, but instead of trying to be perfect the goal is actually to just be 1% more like Jesus every single day.
So my Mindset Shifts To Change Your Dating Life #1 needs to be:
-That I take care of my body and treat is as a vessel equipped to do His work. Jesus died for me, was pierced for my transgressions and now I am equipped with the holy spirit and I need to take care of the vessel (my body) to the best of my ability. That means honoring it with the food I eat, the things I do, the way I steward it.
Mindset Shifts To Change Your Dating Life #2 need to be:
-I need to grow and walk closer to him so that my thoughts are on things above, rather than temporary things here on earth. My mind is on eternity. Am I storing up treasures on earth? Am I viewing myself through His eyes or my own eyes. Am I seeing that I am fearfully and wonderfully made.
Mindset Shifts To Change Your Dating Life #3 need to be:
– I need to not conform to the patterns of the world, but consistently be renewing my mind. It means being in the word of God so that I can have wisdom in all things, so that I can know biblical truths and live my life by them, I can date better because of them. When we know the bible, we know to love people better.
Mindset Shifts To Change Your Dating Life #4 need to be:
– To speak love and remember that there is power in the tongue, so my job is to build up rather than tear down. The tongue is a very powerful tool. In dating I need to speak truth, and love and treating every person with honor, integrity snd respect.
Mindset Shifts To Change Your Dating Life #5 need to be:
– To ask for wisdom knowing He freely gives it, and we need Godly wisdom to get us through everything.
Mindset Shifts To Change Your Dating Life #6 need to be:
– And Above All “Seek First The Kingdom + His Righteousness” Your job is to steward well the life He has gifted you. Your job is to seek him diligently, to know that He has your best interest at heart and knows better than we do.
These Mindset Shifts To Change Your Dating Life will help you be focused on the right things rather than the wrong things. Always bringing it back to honoring the Lord, glorifying His name, and loving people in the midst of it. When we think of things above, we date better, we live better and we honor the Lord in the process.
Written By Michelle Apples
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