Category Living A Life Of Faith
Welcome To The Christian Singles Hub. These blog posts are all about living a life of faith. This blog is a tool to equip Christian singles with resources they need to walk out in bold faith towards everything that God is calling them to.
Faith Without Works Is Dead
When we meet someone that we think we are interested in we often want these miraculous signs and wonders that this is the person God has for us, but rarely does it ever happen this way. God does not reject…
As A Man Thinketh So Is He
Henry Ford once quoted “Whether you think you can, or you think you can’t – you’re right”and he was right. The biggest thing standing against ourselves is… you guessed it! Ourselves. When it comes to being in a relationship mindset…
Behold, I Am Doing A New Thing!
Before I came to the United States I had a good friend and Pastor of mine speak Isaiah 43:19 over me “Behold, I am doing a new thing” but going back to that verse a month later I looked at…
Space For Grace
As I begin to navigate my own current dating life and the God ordained relationship, the one line keeps coming up for me is this: Space for Grace. Creating space for grace is so important when trying to navigate new…
How To Navigate The Wilderness
Ever find yourself in a wilderness season? How do you navigate it? While we’ve discussed this before, I think we need to revisit the topic since this is a regular thing in the life of a true believer. You might…
Discovering Joy
I recently watched a YouTube video where Pastor Tim Ross addressed a single woman’s heartfelt question: “Why am I not married yet?” At first, she hesitated to acknowledge it, but deep down, her question stemmed from a strong desire that…
Trusting God in the Journey
Recently, my husband and I shared a heartfelt conversation with a woman navigating her dating life. As we talked for over an hour, a key question emerged: “How did you know?” Many Christian singles grapple with this, fearing the pain…
“God, are you listening?”
“God, are you listening?” Real Talk. Does anyone else ever feel like God is deaf or maybe has selective hearing?There have been so many times throughout my 40 years where it seems that all of my prayers and petitions are…
In Case you’re like Sarah (Part 2)
If you caught my last post, you’ll remember we dived into the story of Sarah from Genesis 16, where she made a pretty unconventional decision due to her inability to have children. But here’s something that struck me during my…
Don’t Be Like Sarah (Part 1)
Sometimes I wonder what would have happened if Sarah hadn’t interfered with God’s plan. In Genesis 16, she says, ‘the Lord has prevented me from having children.’ Infertility is tough enough for a woman who wants a child, but instead…
God In The Wilderness
At the end of 2023, I invited my husband to join me on a Single Plus podcast episode titled ‘God in the Wilderness.’ I understand what it’s like to feel as if you’re in a dry place. Some might ask,…
Don’t Quit before the Harvest
As 2023 winds down and we peer into 2024, it’s tempting to look at our lives and think, “This isn’t where I hoped I’d be.” You might be reflecting on your singleness and asking, “Why hasn’t it changed?” It’s so…
Choosing Faith Over Feelings
Just last week, I came across a post from a Christian woman who’s about to turn 30. She’s single, and she shared her thoughts on a ‘friends with benefits’ situation with a man who doesn’t share her Christian faith. I…
Don’t Give Up
I recently stumbled upon a post where a woman in her late 20s was told by her own mom to “give up on getting married.” Wow. Can you believe it? If you’ve ever heard the same, or if you’re older…
Start With The House
This week I was praying, while at work, for clarity and wisdom in some areas. I have some big decisions coming up in the next six months to a year. I’ve definitely been trying to focus big picture as opposed…
When Hope Feels Lost, Keep Showing Up
I know, life’s been tough, hasn’t it? Whether you’re in the midst of a storm or waiting for the spouse of your dreams, the challenges seem never-ending. You might even feel a bit numb. Many Christian Singles feel this way,…
Embracing God’s Love and Purpose
As a huge fan of the late Aaliyah, her music still resonates with me even though she’s no longer with us. Recently, humming her song ‘I Don’t Wanna’ made me pause and reflect. Please know that I mean no disrespect…
Trusting God’s Plan
Are you tired of the constant cycle of rejection and disappointment in the dating scene? I understand how discouraging it can be, but let me share some insights that I hope will encourage you. It’s disheartening when I see social…
Living with Belief
Recently, I came across a powerful sermon by Stephanie Ike Okafor titled “Do You Believe?” It completely transformed my perspective on faith and opened my eyes to a practical approach I had never considered before. We all know Hebrews 11:1,…
Embracing The Present
As a child, I couldn’t wait to grow up. “I’m seven going on eight. I’m sixteen going on seventeen. I’m twenty going on twenty-one.” The allure of the next stage of life consumed my thoughts. Middle schoolers eagerly anticipate high…
You Will Win
As I further study the book of Ruth, I see how God’s hand preserved her. Despite the loss of her husband, God’s plan included her in the lineage of Jesus. What the enemy meant to destroy her with, God turned…
When You Feel Like Naomi
I’m currently studying in my Bible study the book of Ruth. This is a popular story in the Christian world, as many women say today, “I’m waiting on my Boaz.” Yet, I’m not talking about Ruth and Boaz today. Today…
Obedience
When you think of obedience, what usually first comes to mind? Is it strictness or enforcing rules? Is it your childhood and all the restrictions that come to mind that your parents had in place? Obedience simply means “compliance with…