Welcome To The Christian Singles Hub. These blog posts are all about Christian Dating. This blog is a tool to equip Christian singles with resources they need to grow date with purpose, and leave people better than they found them.
I think so often we make reaching out to someone so complicated, when it really doesn’t have to be. I would recommend starting out with zero pressure, a simple greeting telling the person hello, ask them how they are, and/or tell…
It’s a sad reality that even as Christians we need to be cautious when it comes to dating, but I am actually astonished by the fact that 90% of men I have talked to have been Cat-fished in one way…
If you have never read the book “The Sacred Search”By Gary Thomas, I would recommend everyone to read it. It really addresses ensuring you are marrying someone for the right reasons and not just for surface level ideas that won’t…
Henry Ford once quoted “Whether you think you can, or you think you can’t – you’re right”and he was right. The biggest thing standing against ourselves is… you guessed it! Ourselves. When it comes to being in a relationship mindset…
As I begin to navigate my own current dating life and the God ordained relationship, the one line keeps coming up for me is this: Space for Grace. Creating space for grace is so important when trying to navigate new…
I hear so often to people who are skeptical of Matchmakers and online dating, they say things like I am just waiting on God to bring them to me, or all in God’s timing. Don’t get me wrong, I believe…
I remember when I was young the goal was always to find someone to complete me, my other half, my better half, but when I started to grow into my own individual being I realized how important it was to…
I recently saw a post on social media about a woman who said she wouldn’t consider dating a man unless he liked tacos and classical music. Like you might be doing right now, I raised my eyebrows. Sure, these were…
Have you ever said, “They’re not my type”? I’ve been guilty of this in the past, and it’s possible I missed out on some great men because they didn’t meet my preferences. Unfortunately, I used to fall for toxic guys.…
I’m currently reading Proverbs, and the verses in chapter 2 really stood out to me. Proverbs 2:6-11 (NKJV) says: “For the Lord gives wisdom; From His mouth come knowledge and understanding; He stores up sound wisdom for the upright; He…
“Maybe I’m meant to be single for the rest of my life.” I’ve seen many Christian singles think this way because they’re not married by a certain age. They start to believe that God must be calling them to permanent…
How can I trust God with my love life? I see a lot of fear with most Christian singles today. It’s the fear of being alone, not being chosen, and their prayers not being answered when it comes to marriage.…
I remember when I was young the goal was always to find someone to complete me, my other half, my better half, but when I started to grow into my own individual being I realized how important it was to…
I have been reflecting lately on the criteria that people come to me with when looking for a life partner. In my opinion it is important to have 3 lists {Criteria, Preferences, & Non Negotiable} Criteria is things that I…
Embracing Stewardship in Singleness In our recent Table Talk, we dove into a unique topic: stewardship. What does it mean to be a good steward? It’s all about managing well what God has blessed us with. This isn’t just about…
I know some of you might be looking at 2023 and feeling like you’re trailing behind. Maybe you’re thinking, “I’m not where I hoped to be. I’m not married or in a relationship yet.” It’s totally normal to feel this…
As the holiday season rolls in, I know it can be tempting to fall into the ‘Single Blues’. Everywhere you look, romance seems to be in the air – it’s cold outside, and the idea of cuffing season is all…
Sometimes, I catch myself marveling at how my life has unfolded—especially this year, being married still feels surreal. Just three years ago, my husband wasn’t even on my radar. I couldn’t have bumped into him on the streets or been…
I totally get it—waiting for what you desire can really test your patience and faith. Sometimes you’re praying so hard for that next chapter in your life that you forget to fully appreciate where you are now. Whether you’re holding…
I recently stumbled upon a post where a woman in her late 20s was told by her own mom to “give up on getting married.” Wow. Can you believe it? If you’ve ever heard the same, or if you’re older…
At 32 years old, on July 29, 2023, I tied the knot with the man I had fervently prayed for. But it wasn’t always smooth sailing. In fact, I spent over a decade living the single life, from 2009 until…
As a huge fan of the late Aaliyah, her music still resonates with me even though she’s no longer with us. Recently, humming her song ‘I Don’t Wanna’ made me pause and reflect. Please know that I mean no disrespect…
I’m sure some of you can understand the phrase, “you’re qualified, but unfortunately, we’re not moving forward with your application.” I know. I’ve heard it too, and it’s disappointing. You got your hopes up. The interview went well. You heard…
You’ve always belonged with me… How many of us, men and women, would swoon over this line? Hear it in a movie? Some would cry. Hear it in a song, probably the same thing. Read it in a book? Yes,…