When it Doesn’t Happen Right Away
I’m currently in a season where I’m waiting for God to move. I’ve done my part the best I know how, willing to learn and grow to improve. Like farmers plant their fields to receive a harvest, I’m expecting God…
Category Christian Dating
Welcome To The Christian Singles Hub. These blog posts are all about Christian Dating. This blog is a tool to equip Christian singles with resources they need to grow date with purpose, and leave people better than they found them.
Some Breakups are Necessary
We’ve all been there. You thought dating them would lead to a relationship. You hoped once in a relationship you’d get engaged. It didn’t work. Now you’re heartbroken. Perhaps you have been through divorce and feel like damaged goods. I…
When You’re Weary
Do you have a plan of action for when you get discouraged? Do you run to God or are there vices in your life you look to for comfort? While we can’t stop bad things from happening, we are in…
Guarded or Walled?
As Christian singles, we’re told to “guard our hearts.” Even the Bible says so because “out of it are the issues of life,” Proverbs 4:23. God knows how tender the heart is and if we’re not careful, we can be…
Are You Complaining?
listened to a sermon over the weekend and it talked about how the Israelites complained about God. God responded with, “those twenty years old and up will die in the wilderness. Everything you complained about will happen to you. The…
You Don’t Have To Second Guess
“If it’s from God, you don’t have to second guess.” What do I mean by this statement? We’re cautioned regularly as Christian singles to look for red flags, don’t settle, and never compromise who you are for a relationship. All…
How To Voice Your Boundaries
I saw a post recently from a woman asking how to voice her boundaries to a potential suitor. She didn’t want to offend him, but she wanted her needs in their growing relationship known. There were quite a few responses,…
God Needs To Hurry Up
I read this comment in a recent Instagram post related to singles. The post simply said that the wait for the right spouse will be worth it. Then I saw this comment. “God needs to hurry up.” I wonder what…
They Still Exist
Ever received a DM via social media that wasn’t appropriate at all? Or you decide to put yourself out there on a dating app, only to be disappointed? They said “Christian” in their bio, but their actions proved different? Whether…
Marriage Is Not The Reward
I listened to a teaching recently where a woman wrote an email to a ministry she was following online. She shared her discouragement since she was past a certain age and had never been married. She figured, “I did all…
Graced for the Right One
I’ve mentioned this phrase before, but I want to go deeper. Do you know the difference between nurturing and nursing? I watched a YouTube video discussing these terms, and the definitions blew me away, especially relating it to dating. Nurse,…
Peace and Clarity
I’ve heard both terms used in dating. How can you tell the difference between a God-centered relationship and one that’s not? Even if the person isn’t toxic, how do you determine if you should move forward? Let’s start with the…
You’ll Never Know
But the Lord said to Samuel, “Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him. The Lord does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks…
Will It Be Worth It?
“When will it be my turn?” A question many singles ask when waiting for their future spouse. How long have you been waiting? Six months? 5 years? 12 years? 20 years? Why does it take that long for some and…
Competition In Dating
“Women outnumber men anyway, so there’s this feeling to compete.” Is this an accurate statement? I can see the heart behind it as a woman, and statistics show women outnumber men. Therefore, we’re in a competition to see who wins.…
When It’s God
How do you know when it’s God? You meet someone, and it appears as if it has the potential to be more. The pursuit is there. The attraction is mutual. You laugh and enjoy each other’s company. So… does this…
Did God Leave Me Out Part II
The Levites and the Singles (part 2) I am mind blown! If you thought God left behind the Levite tribe in Joshua 13:33, you thought wrong. Check out these verses in Joshua 21:1-3, 41-45 (ESV).“Then the heads of the fathers’…
Did God Leave Me Out
The Levites were the only tribe that didn’t receive an allotted piece of land when Israel entered the Promised Land. I wonder how they must have felt. Did they think, “Wait, God left us out, right? Why does everyone else…
When You Meet Someone New
So you met someone online. In person. At church. At the coffee shop. What’s next? The first date. Exciting, right? You laugh, have a great conversation, and even exchange numbers. Then you go home and picture the wedding. Wait a…
