Are you tired of the constant cycle of rejection and disappointment in the dating scene? I understand how discouraging it can be, but let me share some insights that I hope will encourage you.
It’s disheartening when I see social media comments like, “There are good guys out there, but they don’t want me.” Trust me, I’ve been there too, and it can feel like a heavy weight. But remember, God is in control, even when it seems like everything is falling apart.
Let’s face it, the dating journey can be challenging. Maybe you invested six months into a relationship, only to have the other person change their mind and walk away. Perhaps you’ve been single all your life, and you’re starting to wonder if it will always be this way. Or maybe you’re dealing with the aftermath of a divorce or the loss of a spouse, something you never imagined would happen. And let’s not forget coparenting, where the person you thought you’d marry has let you down with their lack of commitment.
I wish I had all the answers for you, but here’s what I do know: God is sovereign. He sees the bigger picture, even when we can’t. It’s possible that our own choices led us to where we are, but that’s not always the case.
Think about Job, who was blameless and lost everything. Consider Joseph, falsely accused and thrown into prison. Then there’s David, a man after God’s own heart. He made mistakes that brought dire consequences upon his family. Whether we’re responsible or not, God knows how to turn our situations around.
I get it, waiting can feel like an eternity. Years may have passed, and you may have poured your heart into spiritual and personal growth without seeing any results. But here’s the truth: God can be trusted. Don’t let negative thoughts rule your life, and don’t give the enemy a foothold to make you doubt God’s intentions for you.
Whenever negativity creeps in, challenge it. If it doesn’t align with God’s Word, reject it. I’ve adopted a mantra that helps me: “No, I’m not going to think that.” And if those negative thoughts persist, immerse yourself in God’s Word. Listen to an encouraging sermon, play your favorite worship songs, or simply repeat affirmations outloud that align with the truth of Scripture.
Remember, God is for you. Never forget that. Even when it feels like you’re alone in your singleness, know that He is with you every step of the way. All things work together for our good, even the painful experiences we endure.
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Written by Daria White Osah
You can find Daria Here:
Devotional https://www.amazon.com/Dear-Younger-Me-Devotional-Personal-ebook/dp/B09QRKBRGB/
Her podcast Single Plus https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/singleplus
& on Instagram @mysingleplus
