5 Ways To Put Yourself Out There This Spring
1.) Environment Matters
Put yourself in new environments. If you do the same thing all the time you will just meet the same people and come across the same people. What does this practically look like: Speed Dating Events, New Churches, Worship Services, Working a Coffee Shops etc.
We have two virtual speed dating events April 14 & 29th. Feel free to sign up for them here: https://missapples.ca/events
2.) Reach Out To People Of The Opposite Sex
Check your spam folder and don’t be hesitant to reach out to someone of the opposite sex. Have a conversation – you aren’t trying to marry them you are simply having a conversation.
3.) Ask For Referrals From Friends
We don’t ask friends because we don’t want to seem desperate, but the best way to meet someone is through a set up, and your friends know you and can vouch for you. If you don’t want to ask for a setup ask them to keep their eyes open. One of my friends always calls me being like I met this guy and I think you two would really hit it off. Friends typically don’t want to impose or interfere but with a little hint at it they are usually happy to get involved.
4.) Be Approachable
We live in a day and age that we are not approachable AT ALL. If you start approaching people you will notice that your whole demeanour changes and people will find you more approachable.
Ways to do this: Next time you are going for coffee or to a restaurant simply engage in conversation with the service staff, smile at someone, stop looking at your phone and make eye contact.
5.) Invest in yourself
We are so much more confident when we feel good, look good and actually put the effort in. Go buy a new outfit, get your hair done, go to that workout class- whatever helps you feel confident and ready to put yourself out there you should do it. Again we don’t realize how this will change our entire demeanour. Think of the last time you felt really good about yourself? How did you walk in a room? Was it different than you normally would?
Happy Spring!!!
Written By Michelle Apples
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