Is Your Dating Picker Off
Is Your Dating Picker Off What is a dating picker and how do I know it is off? Well a dating picker is a term used to describe someone who consistently chooses the wrong type of person in a relationship.…
Michelle Apples
6 Mindset Shifts To Change Your Dating Life
6 Mindset Shifts To Change Your Dating Life I hear so many people who struggle with mindset. They think they aren’t good enough, unworthy, not attractive enough, to thick, to thin, to curvy, to skinny, to tall, to short. You…
5 Ways To Reach Out To Someone You Are Interested In
5 Ways To Reach Out To Someone You Are Interested In I think so often we make reaching out to someone so complicated, when it really doesn’t have to be. Here’s 5 Ways To Reach Out To Someone You Are…
10 Traits Of A Godly Woman
10 Traits Of A Godly Woman 10 Traits Of A Godly Woman #1 A Godly Woman Fears The Lord. “Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.” Proverbs 31:30. It is…
The Why Behind Marriage
The Why Behind Marriage If you have never read the book “The Sacred Search”By Gary Thomas, I would recommend everyone to read it. It really addresses ensuring you are marrying someone for the right reasons and not just for surface…
As A Man Thinketh So Is He
As A Man Thinketh So Is He Henry Ford once quoted “Whether you think you can, or you think you can’t – you’re right”and he was right. The biggest thing standing against ourselves is… you guessed it! Ourselves. So is…
He Is Doing A New Thing!
He Is Doing A New Thing! Before I came to the United States I had a good friend and Pastor of mine speak Isaiah 43:19 over me “Behold, I am doing a new thing” but going back to that verse…
Midst Of A God Miracle
Midst of a God Miracle.. I’m in the midst of a miracle!! I’m talking the most undeserved, unmerited favour, abundance + blessing. God has opened doors that don’t make sense. He has gifted me new friendships that have blossomed out…
Space For Grace
Space For Grace One line that kept coming up for me back when I was dating was: Space for Grace. Creating space for grace is so important when trying to navigate new dating relationships because you are two completely different…
Should I Make A Dating Checklist?
Should I Make A Dating Checklist? Short Answer Yes, Long Answer It’s Complicated. Lists can be a great thing, but they can also be harmful when looking for our potential mate. Everyone has a list of qualities, characteristics, and attributes…
Faith Without Works Is Dead
Faith Without Works Is Dead When we meet someone that we think we are interested in we often want these miraculous signs and wonders that this is the person God has for us, but rarely does it ever happen this…
When God Writes Your Love Story
From the moment he spoke I knew something was different about him, his words held weight, he was so spirit led, you could tell he put God in the centre of his life and when he spoke there was an…
Why God Won’t Force Your Love Story
Why God Won’t Force Your Love Story I hear so often to people who are skeptical of Matchmakers, who aren’t sure about online dating, and they say things like I am just waiting on God to bring them to me,…
Is Your Attachment Style Affecting Your Relationships?
What Is Your Attachment Style? Have you found it difficult to maintain relationships? Perhaps you are finding that majority of relationships you end up in seem to feel unhealthy or toxic? If this is you then maybe you need to…
6 Ways To Break Out Of A Dating Rut
Do You Feel Like You Are In A Dating Rut? How Do You Break Out Of A Dating Rut? This week I did a poll on my Instagram stories and more people were either not dating or frustrated with dating.…
Identity In Christ Before Relationship
Identity In Christ Before Relationship “Most people are other people. Their thoughts are someone else’s opinions, their lives a mimicry, their passions a quotation.” ― Oscar Wilde, De Profundis I never really knew the importance of finding who I was until I…
4 Reasons Why Perfectionism Will Ruin Your Dating Life
Perfectionism will ruin your dating life Perfectionism will ruin your dating life and I want to remind you that it’s ok to be a beginner at something and it is okay to be new on this journey. So often we…
5 Ways To Shift Your Dating Mindset
5 Ways To Shift Your Dating Mindset “Your relationship with yourself sets the tone for every other relationship you have.” #1 Way To Shift Your Dating Mindset Set Healthy Intentions If you go into dating thinking this is going to…
The 8 Stages Of Dating
When you start dating someone, these 8 stages of dating are crucial Stages Of Dating #1 Get Curious– Get curious about the person in front of you. Who are they? What do they want in life? Where do they see…
10 Green Flags In Dating
10 Green Flags In Dating So often you hear us talk about the dreaded Red Flags that happen in dating, but you don’t ever hear about the Green Flags. Here are 10 Green Flags In Dating to watch out for…
10 Steps To Heal From A Breakup
10 Steps To Heal From A Breakup Breakups are tough and anyone who has been through them will agree. There is no way to speed up the breakup process, but there are some ways you can help to alleviate the…
Date Someone Who Isn’t Your Type
Here’s Why You Should Date Someone Who Isn’t Your Type As a Matchmaker people come to me with a list of criteria they are looking for in another person. Height, Race, Career, Education Level, Geographical Location, Physique, and the list…
What Is Christian Dating? It’s Is A Collection Of One Day At A Time …
What Is Christian Dating? As a Christian Dating Coach and Matchmaker, I often am met with Christian Singles who don’t know how to date or who make dating a lot more complicated than it needs to be. For many they…
Limited Human Insight
Limited Human Insight When dating we truly have limited human insight into the person who is sitting across from us. and recently I have been reflecting lately on the criteria that people come to me with when looking for a…
