Point People to Jesus
I want my life to truly please the Lord. Prior to engagement, I made the decision that in singleness, regardless of what people said, I wanted to please God. Did I get backlash for this? Absolutely. I can recall snarky…
Michelle Apples
When Disappointment Knocks
I’m sure some of you can understand the phrase, “you’re qualified, but unfortunately, we’re not moving forward with your application.” I know. I’ve heard it too, and it’s disappointing. You got your hopes up. The interview went well. You heard…
It’s Strengthening You
In the last episode of season three’s The Chosen, we see Jesus walking on the water. Simon Peter joins Him after saying, “if it’s you, command me to come.” Jesus does. We’ve heard this story countless times in the Bible.…
Always and Forever
You’ve always belonged with me… How many of us, men and women, would swoon over this line? Hear it in a movie? Some would cry. Hear it in a song, probably the same thing. Read it in a book? Yes,…
Kingdom Relationships
If you missed the recent live broadcast with Michelle and me in the Christian Singles Facebook group, you missed my engagement announcement. Want to know the story? Listen or watch “God’s Timing is Perfect” on Apple Podcasts or Single Plus’…
God’s Will > My Will
If you could go back and change things about your life, what would you change? Would you have a different career? Pick a different family? Would you be married by now? A lot to consider. God took me on a…
Let It Go
I’m a huge classic movie fan, so the most recent film I’ve watched is 1950’s Gun Crazy. It depicts a man and woman, Bart and Laurie, who marry and lead a life of crime, which only leads to tragedy. I…
New Year Old You?
It’s 2023 and most people set New Year goals. The most popular ones I see are fitness goals, so the gym is full of new members, and if you’re a regular, you probably can’t use your favorite machine right now.…
Yet You Are Holy
My God, my God, why have you forsaken me? Why are you so far from saving me, from the words of my groaning? O my God, I cry by day, but you do not answer, and by night, but I…
The Ultimate Love Story
“Whom have I in heaven but you? And there is nothing on earth that I desire besides you.” I remember a time when passing notes was a thing before text messages. I remember the first note a boy slipped to…
Four Reasons to be Thankful for Singleness
Since Thanksgiving is around the corner, I’ve asked myself what I am grateful for. My top ones are God and my family, but I’m even grateful for the growth I’ve experienced this year. God has taken me deeper, showing me…
Should I Stay or Go?
I listened to a teaching by Ben Stuart on relationships a while back. One thing he said that stood out was when he met his wife. When challenges arose in their relationship, he knew she was different. Why? He wanted…
God And Your Emotions
We live in a world that’s feelings based. “Do what makes you happy.” “Live in your truth.” “If it doesn’t make you happy, don’t do it.” While I’m not advocating for being miserable, our calling as believers isn’t limited to…
What Are You Talking About?
I’ve seen a few recent posts on social media from both men and women expressing their discouragement in dating. Not just from singles who are in their 20s and 30s, but those in their 40s, 50s, and 60s. It’s understandable.…
What’s Really Going On?
“I don’t know what he was thinking.” “Is she desperate or something?” “I would never do that.” It’s easy to give an opinion when you’re on the outside looking into someone else’s life. Social media does it all the time.…
Cuffing Season
It’s that time Christian Singles. We’re in the fall months, it’s getting colder, and the holidays are right around the corner. What does that mean? Singles usually feel even lonelier this time of year. We know the term right? Cuffing…
When God Is Up To Something
“I don’t even care anymore.” I’ve said this plenty of times when I’m tired of waiting. I don’t mean to sound jaded, but after having my hopes up for so long, sometimes I say, “What’s the point?” To pick up…
Take Me To The King
“I’m tired. I don’t know what to do, and I’m angry at God.” The first time I was angry at God was in 2005. My family and I had prayed for three years for Him to heal my maternal grandfather.…
He Won’t Let You Drown
I’ll be honest. I’ve been in an uncertain season since the summer. All the plans I’ve had have seemed to fall through. Nothing works, no matter how many times I pivot and return to the drawing board. It’s been agitating.…
When You’ve Done All You Can
As an author, I know when I reach the end point of writing the first draft. Knowing I’m too close to the story, I send it to my writing partners, who can give me a fresh perspective. When they send…
When They Leave
So you’ve been dating this person for a while, and now they ghost you. You thought your relationship would lead to engagement, but then they tell you, “This just isn’t working anymore.” Or, “I think we’re going in different directions.”…
You Don’t Have To Apologize For Being Hurt
You wouldn’t dare tell someone who’s bleeding, “You need to pray harder.” Or if someone was having a heart attack, you wouldn’t say, “Call on Jesus. He’ll help you.” It’s irrational right? Call 911! Help this person get immediate medical…
Let the Lion Roar
Recently I’ve been watching lion documentaries. Why? Don’t fully know, but these animals have fascinated me with their habits. How God made them instinctual or how they work together in packs, especially when hunting and feeding their pride. How does…
When You’re Like Samson
We’re continuing our discussion in Judges. I did a podcast episode called “When you’re like Samson,” and wanted to expand on the topic. It’s inspired by Judges 16:15-22. The story of Samson and Delilah is not uncommon in the Christian…
