Embracing God’s Love and Purpose
As a huge fan of the late Aaliyah, her music still resonates with me even though she’s no longer with us. Recently, humming her song ‘I Don’t Wanna’ made me pause and reflect. Please know that I mean no disrespect…
Living A Life Of Faith
Welcome To The Christian Singles Hub. These blog posts are all about living a life of faith. This blog is a tool to equip Christian singles with resources they need to walk out in bold faith towards everything that God is calling them to.
Trusting God’s Plan
Are you tired of the constant cycle of rejection and disappointment in the dating scene? I understand how discouraging it can be, but let me share some insights that I hope will encourage you. It’s disheartening when I see social…
Living with Belief
Recently, I came across a powerful sermon by Stephanie Ike Okafor titled “Do You Believe?” It completely transformed my perspective on faith and opened my eyes to a practical approach I had never considered before. We all know Hebrews 11:1,…
Embracing The Present
As a child, I couldn’t wait to grow up. “I’m seven going on eight. I’m sixteen going on seventeen. I’m twenty going on twenty-one.” The allure of the next stage of life consumed my thoughts. Middle schoolers eagerly anticipate high…
You Will Win
As I further study the book of Ruth, I see how God’s hand preserved her. Despite the loss of her husband, God’s plan included her in the lineage of Jesus. What the enemy meant to destroy her with, God turned…
When You Feel Like Naomi
I’m currently studying in my Bible study the book of Ruth. This is a popular story in the Christian world, as many women say today, “I’m waiting on my Boaz.” Yet, I’m not talking about Ruth and Boaz today. Today…
Obedience
When you think of obedience, what usually first comes to mind? Is it strictness or enforcing rules? Is it your childhood and all the restrictions that come to mind that your parents had in place? Obedience simply means “compliance with…
Point People to Jesus
I want my life to truly please the Lord. Prior to engagement, I made the decision that in singleness, regardless of what people said, I wanted to please God. Did I get backlash for this? Absolutely. I can recall snarky…
It’s Strengthening You
In the last episode of season three’s The Chosen, we see Jesus walking on the water. Simon Peter joins Him after saying, “if it’s you, command me to come.” Jesus does. We’ve heard this story countless times in the Bible.…
God’s Will > My Will
If you could go back and change things about your life, what would you change? Would you have a different career? Pick a different family? Would you be married by now? A lot to consider. God took me on a…
Yet You Are Holy
My God, my God, why have you forsaken me? Why are you so far from saving me, from the words of my groaning? O my God, I cry by day, but you do not answer, and by night, but I…
The Ultimate Love Story
“Whom have I in heaven but you? And there is nothing on earth that I desire besides you.” I remember a time when passing notes was a thing before text messages. I remember the first note a boy slipped to…
Four Reasons to be Thankful for Singleness
Since Thanksgiving is around the corner, I’ve asked myself what I am grateful for. My top ones are God and my family, but I’m even grateful for the growth I’ve experienced this year. God has taken me deeper, showing me…
When God Is Up To Something
“I don’t even care anymore.” I’ve said this plenty of times when I’m tired of waiting. I don’t mean to sound jaded, but after having my hopes up for so long, sometimes I say, “What’s the point?” To pick up…
Take Me To The King
“I’m tired. I don’t know what to do, and I’m angry at God.” The first time I was angry at God was in 2005. My family and I had prayed for three years for Him to heal my maternal grandfather.…
He Won’t Let You Drown
I’ll be honest. I’ve been in an uncertain season since the summer. All the plans I’ve had have seemed to fall through. Nothing works, no matter how many times I pivot and return to the drawing board. It’s been agitating.…
When You’ve Done All You Can
As an author, I know when I reach the end point of writing the first draft. Knowing I’m too close to the story, I send it to my writing partners, who can give me a fresh perspective. When they send…
You Don’t Have To Apologize For Being Hurt
You wouldn’t dare tell someone who’s bleeding, “You need to pray harder.” Or if someone was having a heart attack, you wouldn’t say, “Call on Jesus. He’ll help you.” It’s irrational right? Call 911! Help this person get immediate medical…
Let the Lion Roar
Recently I’ve been watching lion documentaries. Why? Don’t fully know, but these animals have fascinated me with their habits. How God made them instinctual or how they work together in packs, especially when hunting and feeding their pride. How does…
When You’re Like Samson
We’re continuing our discussion in Judges. I did a podcast episode called “When you’re like Samson,” and wanted to expand on the topic. It’s inspired by Judges 16:15-22. The story of Samson and Delilah is not uncommon in the Christian…
A Few Lessons from Samson
As I study the book of Judges, I’ve arrived at the story of Samson. Though we know the story of him and Delilah, Samson had dysfunctional patterns long before he met her. What principles can we learn from a classic…
When it Doesn’t Happen Right Away
I’m currently in a season where I’m waiting for God to move. I’ve done my part the best I know how, willing to learn and grow to improve. Like farmers plant their fields to receive a harvest, I’m expecting God…
When You’re Weary
Do you have a plan of action for when you get discouraged? Do you run to God or are there vices in your life you look to for comfort? While we can’t stop bad things from happening, we are in…
God Needs To Hurry Up
I read this comment in a recent Instagram post related to singles. The post simply said that the wait for the right spouse will be worth it. Then I saw this comment. “God needs to hurry up.” I wonder what…
