Will I Ever Get Married?
“Maybe I’m meant to be single for the rest of my life.” I’ve seen many Christian singles think this way because they’re not married by a certain age. They start to believe that God must be calling them to permanent…
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God And Your Love Life
How can I trust God with my love life? I see a lot of fear with most Christian singles today. It’s the fear of being alone, not being chosen, and their prayers not being answered when it comes to marriage.…
Discovering Joy
I recently watched a YouTube video where Pastor Tim Ross addressed a single woman’s heartfelt question: “Why am I not married yet?” At first, she hesitated to acknowledge it, but deep down, her question stemmed from a strong desire that…
Trusting God in the Journey
Recently, my husband and I shared a heartfelt conversation with a woman navigating her dating life. As we talked for over an hour, a key question emerged: “How did you know?” Many Christian singles grapple with this, fearing the pain…
Embracing Stewardship in Singleness
Embracing Stewardship in Singleness In our recent Table Talk, we dove into a unique topic: stewardship. What does it mean to be a good steward? It’s all about managing well what God has blessed us with. This isn’t just about…
“God, are you listening?”
“God, are you listening?” Real Talk. Does anyone else ever feel like God is deaf or maybe has selective hearing?There have been so many times throughout my 40 years where it seems that all of my prayers and petitions are…
In Case you’re like Sarah (Part 2)
If you caught my last post, you’ll remember we dived into the story of Sarah from Genesis 16, where she made a pretty unconventional decision due to her inability to have children. But here’s something that struck me during my…
Don’t Be Like Sarah (Part 1)
Sometimes I wonder what would have happened if Sarah hadn’t interfered with God’s plan. In Genesis 16, she says, ‘the Lord has prevented me from having children.’ Infertility is tough enough for a woman who wants a child, but instead…
God In The Wilderness
At the end of 2023, I invited my husband to join me on a Single Plus podcast episode titled ‘God in the Wilderness.’ I understand what it’s like to feel as if you’re in a dry place. Some might ask,…
21 Days Of Prayer & Fasting
Welcome to our 21 day Prayer & Fasting! Why Fast? Fasting is the ancient practice of choosing to abstain from food for a certain period of time. It is a spiritual discipline, the purpose of which is training to become…
Don’t Quit before the Harvest
As 2023 winds down and we peer into 2024, it’s tempting to look at our lives and think, “This isn’t where I hoped I’d be.” You might be reflecting on your singleness and asking, “Why hasn’t it changed?” It’s so…
Finding Peace in God’s Timing
I know some of you might be looking at 2023 and feeling like you’re trailing behind. Maybe you’re thinking, “I’m not where I hoped to be. I’m not married or in a relationship yet.” It’s totally normal to feel this…
Single During the Holidays
As the holiday season rolls in, I know it can be tempting to fall into the ‘Single Blues’. Everywhere you look, romance seems to be in the air – it’s cold outside, and the idea of cuffing season is all…
Wait For God’s Best
Sometimes, I catch myself marveling at how my life has unfolded—especially this year, being married still feels surreal. Just three years ago, my husband wasn’t even on my radar. I couldn’t have bumped into him on the streets or been…
When Waiting Gets Tough
I totally get it—waiting for what you desire can really test your patience and faith. Sometimes you’re praying so hard for that next chapter in your life that you forget to fully appreciate where you are now. Whether you’re holding…
Choosing Faith Over Feelings
Just last week, I came across a post from a Christian woman who’s about to turn 30. She’s single, and she shared her thoughts on a ‘friends with benefits’ situation with a man who doesn’t share her Christian faith. I…
Don’t Give Up
I recently stumbled upon a post where a woman in her late 20s was told by her own mom to “give up on getting married.” Wow. Can you believe it? If you’ve ever heard the same, or if you’re older…
When Hope Feels Lost, Keep Showing Up
I know, life’s been tough, hasn’t it? Whether you’re in the midst of a storm or waiting for the spouse of your dreams, the challenges seem never-ending. You might even feel a bit numb. Many Christian Singles feel this way,…
Embracing God’s Perfect Timing
At 32 years old, on July 29, 2023, I tied the knot with the man I had fervently prayed for. But it wasn’t always smooth sailing. In fact, I spent over a decade living the single life, from 2009 until…
Embracing God’s Love and Purpose
As a huge fan of the late Aaliyah, her music still resonates with me even though she’s no longer with us. Recently, humming her song ‘I Don’t Wanna’ made me pause and reflect. Please know that I mean no disrespect…
Trusting God’s Plan
Are you tired of the constant cycle of rejection and disappointment in the dating scene? I understand how discouraging it can be, but let me share some insights that I hope will encourage you. It’s disheartening when I see social…
Living with Belief
Recently, I came across a powerful sermon by Stephanie Ike Okafor titled “Do You Believe?” It completely transformed my perspective on faith and opened my eyes to a practical approach I had never considered before. We all know Hebrews 11:1,…
Embracing The Present
As a child, I couldn’t wait to grow up. “I’m seven going on eight. I’m sixteen going on seventeen. I’m twenty going on twenty-one.” The allure of the next stage of life consumed my thoughts. Middle schoolers eagerly anticipate high…
You Will Win
As I further study the book of Ruth, I see how God’s hand preserved her. Despite the loss of her husband, God’s plan included her in the lineage of Jesus. What the enemy meant to destroy her with, God turned…
