God And Your Love Life
How can I trust God with my love life? I see a lot of fear with most Christian singles today. It’s the fear of being alone, not being chosen, and their prayers not being answered when it comes to marriage.…
Christian Dating
Welcome To The Christian Singles Hub. These blog posts are all about Christian Dating. This blog is a tool to equip Christian singles with resources they need to grow date with purpose, and leave people better than they found them.
Embracing Stewardship in Singleness
Embracing Stewardship in Singleness In our recent Table Talk, we dove into a unique topic: stewardship. What does it mean to be a good steward? It’s all about managing well what God has blessed us with. This isn’t just about…
Finding Peace in God’s Timing
I know some of you might be looking at 2023 and feeling like you’re trailing behind. Maybe you’re thinking, “I’m not where I hoped to be. I’m not married or in a relationship yet.” It’s totally normal to feel this…
Single During the Holidays
As the holiday season rolls in, I know it can be tempting to fall into the ‘Single Blues’. Everywhere you look, romance seems to be in the air – it’s cold outside, and the idea of cuffing season is all…
Wait For God’s Best
Sometimes, I catch myself marveling at how my life has unfolded—especially this year, being married still feels surreal. Just three years ago, my husband wasn’t even on my radar. I couldn’t have bumped into him on the streets or been…
When Waiting Gets Tough
I totally get it—waiting for what you desire can really test your patience and faith. Sometimes you’re praying so hard for that next chapter in your life that you forget to fully appreciate where you are now. Whether you’re holding…
Don’t Give Up
I recently stumbled upon a post where a woman in her late 20s was told by her own mom to “give up on getting married.” Wow. Can you believe it? If you’ve ever heard the same, or if you’re older…
Embracing God’s Perfect Timing
At 32 years old, on July 29, 2023, I tied the knot with the man I had fervently prayed for. But it wasn’t always smooth sailing. In fact, I spent over a decade living the single life, from 2009 until…
Embracing God’s Love and Purpose
As a huge fan of the late Aaliyah, her music still resonates with me even though she’s no longer with us. Recently, humming her song ‘I Don’t Wanna’ made me pause and reflect. Please know that I mean no disrespect…
When Disappointment Knocks
I’m sure some of you can understand the phrase, “you’re qualified, but unfortunately, we’re not moving forward with your application.” I know. I’ve heard it too, and it’s disappointing. You got your hopes up. The interview went well. You heard…
Always and Forever
You’ve always belonged with me… How many of us, men and women, would swoon over this line? Hear it in a movie? Some would cry. Hear it in a song, probably the same thing. Read it in a book? Yes,…
Kingdom Relationships
If you missed the recent live broadcast with Michelle and me in the Christian Singles Facebook group, you missed my engagement announcement. Want to know the story? Listen or watch “God’s Timing is Perfect” on Apple Podcasts or Single Plus’…
Let It Go
I’m a huge classic movie fan, so the most recent film I’ve watched is 1950’s Gun Crazy. It depicts a man and woman, Bart and Laurie, who marry and lead a life of crime, which only leads to tragedy. I…
The Ultimate Love Story
“Whom have I in heaven but you? And there is nothing on earth that I desire besides you.” I remember a time when passing notes was a thing before text messages. I remember the first note a boy slipped to…
Four Reasons to be Thankful for Singleness
Since Thanksgiving is around the corner, I’ve asked myself what I am grateful for. My top ones are God and my family, but I’m even grateful for the growth I’ve experienced this year. God has taken me deeper, showing me…
Should I Stay or Go?
I listened to a teaching by Ben Stuart on relationships a while back. One thing he said that stood out was when he met his wife. When challenges arose in their relationship, he knew she was different. Why? He wanted…
God And Your Emotions
We live in a world that’s feelings based. “Do what makes you happy.” “Live in your truth.” “If it doesn’t make you happy, don’t do it.” While I’m not advocating for being miserable, our calling as believers isn’t limited to…
What Are You Talking About?
I’ve seen a few recent posts on social media from both men and women expressing their discouragement in dating. Not just from singles who are in their 20s and 30s, but those in their 40s, 50s, and 60s. It’s understandable.…
What’s Really Going On?
“I don’t know what he was thinking.” “Is she desperate or something?” “I would never do that.” It’s easy to give an opinion when you’re on the outside looking into someone else’s life. Social media does it all the time.…
Cuffing Season
It’s that time Christian Singles. We’re in the fall months, it’s getting colder, and the holidays are right around the corner. What does that mean? Singles usually feel even lonelier this time of year. We know the term right? Cuffing…
When They Leave
So you’ve been dating this person for a while, and now they ghost you. You thought your relationship would lead to engagement, but then they tell you, “This just isn’t working anymore.” Or, “I think we’re going in different directions.”…
You Don’t Have To Apologize For Being Hurt
You wouldn’t dare tell someone who’s bleeding, “You need to pray harder.” Or if someone was having a heart attack, you wouldn’t say, “Call on Jesus. He’ll help you.” It’s irrational right? Call 911! Help this person get immediate medical…
When it Doesn’t Happen Right Away
I’m currently in a season where I’m waiting for God to move. I’ve done my part the best I know how, willing to learn and grow to improve. Like farmers plant their fields to receive a harvest, I’m expecting God…
Some Breakups are Necessary
We’ve all been there. You thought dating them would lead to a relationship. You hoped once in a relationship you’d get engaged. It didn’t work. Now you’re heartbroken. Perhaps you have been through divorce and feel like damaged goods. I…
